Imagine yourself as the driver in this picture.. you are driving in a 2 way lane without any separator that could protect you if anyone from opposite direction drives recklessly or is having an accident...

So how can you find out when somebody will mess up and put your life in danger?
The answer is, nobody is able find out when and how it will happen...

So what should we do?
Every driver (except for drivers in Indonesia) are carefully trained and examined before they can get a driving license. This is done to protect themselves and to protect others. In other words, when driving, the only thing we can do is to do our best and therefore making ourselves and other people safe. You have utterly no influence to other drivers...

Loving and being loved are surprisingly quite similar to this. There is no way you can predict whether your partner is true to you or not,even the seemingly best people can change too.

In loving, the only thing we can do, or should I say the BEST thing to do is to give our best and to love our partner the best we could. Try your best to understand them and if you can, give them what they want.

"Hold your partner's hand instead of expecting them to hold yours..."

And remember... if your partner does not love you the way you wanted, it doesn't mean that they don't love you with all they have... if you guys have a problem, talk it out, fix it together... from those small things your bond will be stronger day by day...

If you really have done your best and they still leave you, then they did not deserve your love at all...
and believe me, somebody out there deserves your love!

Here is a little something for every soul...

Laugh when you can,
apologize when you should,
and let go of what you can't change.

Kiss slowly,
play hard,
forgive quickly,
take chances,
give everything
and have no regrets.

Life's too short to be anything…but happy...

Tdnya sih pingin nyoba hot stone, apa daya tangan tak sampai.. ternyata waktu luangnya nda cukup... si dvs hrs pgi jmput bokpnya jd kt cuma pny wkt sbntr doank.. akhirnya g nyoba ear candling..

Rasanya.... anget2... ada bunyi kretek2 (bunyi api ngebakar kayu gt)

then dipijet gt kupingnya ma mba nya.. enakkkkkkkk.. bikin ngantuk heuhehehe..

yg bikin enak sih pijetannya.. dan i'm quite amazed liat hasil candlingnya.. oren2 tak jelas.. iuh.. hahahahha.. beneran kotoran dr kuping nda ya?? *penasaran*

bersih sih tp kok kekna membuat kuping saia terlalu bersih wakakaka jd agak2 serem.. mgkn nda yah cairan kuping yg seharusnya ada disana jd ikutan dibersihkan jg? hahahah *terlalu byk berpikir*

intine sih g nyoba2 doank.. ga untuk dilakukan scr rutin, scr mayan mahal jg sih.. 45rb for less than 30 mins..

mendingan creambath + lulur di salon hehehehe..

Rumitnya seorang istri & simplenya seorang suami…

BUKU HARIAN ISTRI

Minggu malam - Dia bertingkah aneh, sebelumnya kami berjanji bertemu di cafe. Aku shopping dengan teman teman, sehingga dia mungkin karena aku agak telat, sampai di cafe, dia tidak berkomentar.Ngobrolnya nggak nyambung, jadi aku usul kita pergi ketempat yang agak sepi supaya ngobrolnya agak enak, dia setuju tapi tetap diam dan berjarak. Aku tanyakan ” apa ada yang salah “, dia menjawab ” tak ada “. Aku tanyakan apakah kesalahannku yang membuatnya kesal, dia bilang hal ini tidak ada kaitannya denganku dan minta aku gak usah khawatir.Dalam perjalanan pulang, kubilang aku mencintainya, dia cuman tersenyum tipis dan tetap menyetir. Aku tidak bisa menjelaskan perangainya sore itu. Aku tak habis fikir kenapa dia tak menjawab, ” Aku juga cinta kamu “. Sesampainya dirumah aku merasa kehilangan dia, dan seolah olah dia tak menghendaki aku lagi. dia hanya duduk dan menonton didepan tv, dia terlihat jauh dan menghilang�…Akhirnya aku putuskan untuk tidur. Sekitar 10 menit kemudian, dia menyusul ke kamar. Aku nggak tahan lagi, aku putuskan untuk menghadapinya dan menanyakan soal sebenarnya, tapi dia langsung tertidur. Aku mulai menangis sampai tertidur. Aku tak tahu apa yang harus kulakukan. Hidupku serasa kiamat..

BUKU HARIAN SUAMI

Hari ini BUMI diguyur. SIALAAANNNNNN! !!!

Yep, i know i keep complaining about my unromantic boyfriend hehehe.. and he complained too yesterday! haha.. He said that i am not romantic either.. ok.. how am i supposed to be romantic ya? Any idea?

After long hours of working, i was about to go to the gym to refresh myself.. But unexpectedly, he appeared there.. in front of my office to pick me up. I was quite surprised and told him that he should have told me if he's coming... The thing is... i brought my car to office! but well... it ended by me, leaving the car behind and jumping into his car....

Watched movie "cloudy with a chance of meat ball".. and.. it was just ok..

Then when we were on the road, we were chatting about Miyabi! HAHAHA.. if u guys know who she is... well, i just know her from karin's email haha *mengejar miyabi* anywayyyyyyy... i started to be upset dong, knowing that my bf is not only a normal guy but also one that loves watching porn! YEP HE LIKES IT! damn u! not that he will always watch.. but yeah.. i know EVERY guy will like it...... sexy ladies and all vulgar stuff.. sooooo.... otw to my home, i was upset.

But, everytime .... he always win me back. After arriving at my home, he suddenly brought up some roses *prepared before meeting me* and said "Happy 8 months anniversary!"

I was like ... *HA....* (shocked)

then cry

hahahahhahahahha... i'm sorry for being easily touched ~ hehehe..

Ok then, i forgive you for knowing Miyabi and her a-lot-more friends... But please don't watch them too much! *keeping the expectation low*

lalala~~~~ signing out,

xoxo, eijee ko.

Hai teman2...

Kenalkan teman lama saya ... sudah lama tak berjumpa dengannya...

Namanya si obeng dan si tang....~

Kalau inget jaman dulu, smp atau sma gitu, gue kynya sering dan doyan bgt kutak kutik barang ... alias bereksperimen gituuu..

Gue menemukan cara membuka handle pintu bulet yg kekonci dan buletan koncinya stuck di dalam.. ga perlu pake oli kok mom... (Yes, my mother used to drop some oil and then push and pull hard, turn it right and left).. nope, ga usa kayak gitu kok mom.. ada caranya :) Gue juga menemukan cara betulin line telepon di rmh waktu telponnya mati.. bakar2 kabel telponnya dikit, korek2 karet kabelnya pake cutter mpe tangan gue item2 semoa...

Kok menyenangkan ya?

Hari ini? ehehehhehe.. colokan di kamar gue ceritanya lagi rusak nih.. colokannya punya 4 lobang, biasanya gue pake 1 buat charge hape, 1 buat hair dryer, 1 buat lampu kelap kelip lucuuuu, dan 1 lagi kosong... lah ini, dari 4 lobang, rusak 3. Jadi tinggal 1 lobang yg berfungsi, yg ada listriknya. Lah gunanya nih colokan apa dong kalau gue nyolok colokan khusus begini tapi lobangnya cuma 1 juga??

So..... Kmrn gue nitip bonyok gue beliin colokan baru, yg lobangnya 4 biji juga.. Dibeliinnya yg 5 lobang!

Eh, hari ini, ngeliat colokan rusak, bokap gue iseng, "bongkar yuk" katanya. Uih.. gue yg tadinya kekenyangan begah hbs makan, dan pengen mandi.. langsung batal.. yang ada, gue ke laci, nyari si obeng... obeng kembang, obeng lurus, ama tang..

kutak kutik kutak kutik... bokap gue bilang "hehehe.. kynya masangnya ntar susah deh" hahahaha

Bisa bongkar takut ga bisa pasang..

Ternyata.....

Berhasil loh....

Masyaolo.. sebenernya tuh ya ga usa dibongkar mpe ke dalem2nya gitu.. cuma di-cutil dari arah luar tuh uda bisa.. cuma ganti fuse nya aja.. (sekring ya bahasa indonya?) trus uda deh, berfungsi lagi dah tuh colokan. Gue ma bokap mpe bongkar belakang2nya, buka paku2nya gitu hehehehe...

Somehow kok menyenangkan ya? Mgkn dulu gue harusnya bljr teknik / engineering gitu kali ye... hihi..

Berbicara soal si Tang.. ah.. gue jadi inget jaman dulu gue kecil, bokap gue doyan bgt nyabut gigi gue pake tang T.T hikssssssssssss sakitttt... mskipun ga pake tang, gue dibawa ke rumah sakit, dicabut giginya jg tereak2 kaya cacing kepanasan hahahaha sampe2 enci gue yg nunggu di luar terkaget2.. bingung kali adenya di apain mpe teriak histeris gitu.. bener2 deh, waktu itu gue bener2 teriak dengan super kencang loh!! HAHAHAHA

=P